Coach Rachel here, ready to answer your questions about Tiny Troops Soccer. Today’s question is all about helping young children who may be shy and hesitant to play soccer. Let’s dive in and take a closer look.

A child’s very first sport is an exciting time for both parents and child. You may have seen other young children around the age of your toddler or preschooler partaking in sporting activities and wanted your little one to join in on the fun. These activities promote movement, social and emotional skills, and of course the little ones are so adorable when they are participating! Many young children take to participating right away and are happy to jump into new situations and scenarios. But what if your toddler or preschooler is naturally shy or hesitant to participate in new social activities? Suddenly, the excitement dulls a bit. However, with the right approach from both the parents and the coach, Tiny Troops Soccer can be an excellent first exposure to the world of sports.

Is It Normal?

I have spent time in the coaching realm for over 10 years, 5 of those being with Tiny Troops Soccer. I have seen and taught many toddlers and preschoolers in that timeframe. The one thing to remember is that no two children are exactly the same. Each child comes with their own experiences, worries, fears, and skill levels. As a coach, it’s my job to learn which children may be having a harder time on Soccer Island.

Shyness in toddlers and preschoolers is completely normal. Some children take longer to warm up to new experiences, especially in group settings. Tiny Troops Soccer is a new experience with unfamiliar people, often held in a busy area, like a local park. Being shy doesn’t mean that soccer isn’t for them– it just means that they need time to warm up and encouragement those they love and trust.

How Tiny Troops Soccer Helps Shy Kids Adjust

Tiny Troops Soccer focuses on providing a structured environment with many opportunities for play. Here’s how our program can help:

• Routine – Our classes are held 3 times a month. Every coach follows a set lesson plan for each class. The setup of each lesson plan is the same: introduction and welcome, a warm-up activity, then a mix of skills and games to practice those skills. Finally there is the wrap-up and goodbye. Classes for the older children will include scrimmages during weeks 2 and 3. Following this structured plan creates a routine that every child becomes familiar with. This provides security, and helps shy children become more comfortable over time. They come to learn what to expect from every Tiny Troops Soccer class, whether it’s May or September.
• Non-Verbal Communication – Like other sports, soccer involves learning how to move one’s body. Children are able to focus on the task or skill at hand without being pressured to speak to others. Toddlers and preschoolers are able to play beside their fellow players and learn together.
• Encouragement & Praise – Tiny Troops Soccer is all about celebrating the achievements of every child, big or small. Coaches are sure to call out praise or give high fives to celebrate working hard on a skill. We also encourage all of our families to cheer for their Tiny Trooper and their friends. We always want to make sure players develop in a positive space.
• A Safe Space to Observe – Sometimes a shy child just needs time to observe the activity and watch others participating. Our playing area, Soccer Island, is clearly marked with cone boundaries, and your little one is welcome to observe from the sidelines. Their coach will come over from time to time to try and encourage them to join their friends on the field.

Tips for Helping Your Shy Child Feel Comfortable

1. Start Slow – If your child is shy or nervous about coming to class, talk about soccer with them prior to the big day. We have virtual class videos available that you and your child can do at home together as a simple introduction to Tiny Troops Soccer. On the big day, arrive early to the field to let your child observe a class already in progress, or to meet their coach. If they want to watch from the sidelines, sit with them and talk about what is happening and what the other players are doing.
2. Stay Positive & Patient – Avoid pressuring your child to jump in right away. Observe with the child, and talk about what you see. Celebrate the little successes- getting onto the field, dribbling the ball, or interacting with their coach. We would love for every child to jump right in, but patience is key with children who are shy.
3. Enroll with a Friend – Does your little one have a friend that might also enjoy soccer? Enroll together so that each child has a familiar face with them on the field. Plus, we have a Refer a Friend bonus where each family can receive a $15 discount on their next month’s tuition. All you have to do is mention each other when completing enrollment.
4. Practice at Home – Play in the backyard with a soccer ball and practice dribbling around or scoring goals. Check out the Activities and Skills corner of our blog for other fun soccer activities that can be done in your backyard.
5. Lead by Example – Show enthusiasm for the sport by playing along, smiling, and modeling friendly interactions with coaches and other parents.

A Gentle Introduction to Team Sports

Tiny Troops Soccer understands the importance of making all children feel welcome. Our coaches are experienced in working with young children, and know that patience and encouragement can make all the difference in a player. At the end of the day, our program isn’t just about teaching soccer skills- it’s also about helping children feel comfortable and excited to play.

As a parent, you play a vital role in helping your child adjust. With time, encouragement, and a supportive soccer community, your shy little one can blossom into a confident player who enjoys the game and the friendships that come with it.

At the end of the day, the goal isn’t just about soccer—it’s about helping kids feel comfortable, happy, and excited to play. With some time and lots of positive encouragement, your shy little one just might surprise you!

Is your little one ready to take their first steps onto the soccer field? Find your location today and join us for classes!