Building Independence in Toddlers & Preschoolers

A big milestone for toddlers and preschoolers is learning how to do things on their own and be independent. From learning to get dressed to trying something without a grownup, every little step helps children gain confidence in themselves. At Tiny Troops Soccer, we see these little moments happen every week. Our program provides many opportunities for building independence in toddlers.

Carrying Their Own Soccer Ball

It may seem simple, but carrying their own soccer ball is a big deal for many young children. Instead of relying on their grown-up, they are given the responsibility of taking care of their own equipment. They learn to place the ball in one of the goals, they learn when to get it during classes, and how to collect it at the end of class. This is the age when young children want to do new tasks and be independent, and this is a great way to help them feel capable.

Walking onto Soccer Island

One of the hardest parts of class for some Tiny Troopers is taking those first steps by themselves onto Soccer Island. Some Tiny Troopers find it hard to leave their grown-ups. Some will stand off of Soccer Island, clutching their grown-up’s hand. Others will only step onto Soccer Island with their grown-up by their side. As they become more comfortable with their coach, their classmates, and the routine of the class.

One day though, something exciting begins to happen. One day, they walk onto Soccer Island by themselves. That moment may last only for a game introduction or just one activity, but it represents a huge step toward independence and growing confidence. As their grown-up, keep encouraging these little steps, and eventually, they’ll stay on Soccer Island the entire class.

Following Directions Independently

During class, coaches give simple directions that encourage children to think and act on their own.

“Can you dribble to the yellow cone?”

“Let’s find a spot for our soccer ball.”

“Can you show me your toe taps?”

Instead of looking to a grown-up for every answer, children gradually begin responding to their coach and completing activities on their own. This is another important part of building independence in toddlers. They begin trusting themselves to listen and try.

Making Choices

Soccer classes also give children opportunities to make simple decisions. They might choose which pinnie to dribble toward during Shark Island or decide how they’ll move through the obstacle course at the end of class. Sometimes they’ll decide they’re ready to join an activity after watching for a few minutes with their grown-up. These small choices help children develop confidence in their own abilities while learning that it’s okay to try new things.

What This Means for Parents

Building independence in toddlers and preschoolers doesn’t happen overnight. It grows through little actions and small moments. The next time you’re watching a class, look beyond the soccer skills. Notice if your Tiny Trooper carries their own ball, walks onto Soccer Island by themselves, or follows a direction without looking back at you first. Those moments may seem small, but they are signs that your child is becoming more independent. At Tiny Troops Soccer, we’re excited to celebrate every one of those victories because they help build skills that reach far beyond Soccer Island.

Ready to begin your child’s Soccer Island adventure? Find your closest class and enroll today!